Hands off my ass!

Just another rant ;)

Published on August 15, 2004 By Sally jacobs In Personal Relationships

I have a hangover, yuckuy, yuck, yuck. We went out for my sisters birthday last night. We went to a restaurant, and had a meal, it was nice. The food wasn't excellent, but I'm a fussy eater and the others seemed to enjoy it, so it must have just being me. My sister had to go home after the meal because she had Maddy Mae, and a few of us went to a club for some dancing. So here's my usual rant about when I go clubbing. Why do men think it's ok to grab my ass? Please someone tell me. Because I'm dancing? Because I am more than happy to dance alone? Because I'm shaking it, therefore it's ok for them to rub my ass as much as they like? I don't think so. There was this boy, who was doing the thunder clap. Now if you know what the thunder clap is, you'd guess that this boy looked totally stupid. He was obviously impressed with himself, and you know each to their own. Thunder clap away my friend. He started edging his way nearer to me, until he was directly behind me, and then started feeling my ass. Now I can understand an accidental brush past my ass, but this guy was feeling my ass. He thought he was really clever too, until I got my friends bf to swap places with me, that ass feel didn't go down to well then, hehe

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I love to dance with a passion. I don't even need to drink when I'm out, I'm quite happy to just get on that dance floor and shake my funky stuff. My friends were bores last night, because it was really hot, they were drawn to the downstairs of the club which is alot quieter, and more importantly has air conditioning. I did try that for a short while, but I find I just can't sit still. I was born to dance baby! So off I went! The upstairs of this club has two huge rooms, one is for hip hop and r'n'b and the other room is all party tunes I actually danced to Abba in there! Though I have to say, the hip hop room is where I love most. You can really get your groove on. The next rant is about men that just stand and watch you. They are obviously just perving at you, and have absolutely no problem in dribbling in their beer, while blatantly staring at you. Don't get me wrong, men were not born to dance. The majority of men I know, cannot dance. They have two left feet, and just look like fools, made even worse when they've had a drink. Because then they form the deluded impression they can dance, and go for gold. Can't you tell I'm in a man hating mood today. They just all come across so yucky. Like they are after one thing and one thing only. Grrr....anyway back to these men that just stare at you. I don't have a huge problem with them really, just if they made it less obvious it would be nice. They make you feel like you're at a meat market, I tell you.

People have being winding me up recently. I don't know why, maybe this is why I'm ranting at the moment. I'm going through a phase where my friends are annoying me. I get like this sometimes. Like I spend loads of time with them, and it gets a little to much and I need some space again. I think I'm reaching that point. Where they are not really doing anything wrong, but now alot right either. I'm just a misery at times I think. I had a disagreement with my best friend last night. Even now in the cold light of day I don't thinhk it was my fault. She thought I was being funny with her boyfriend. Which I wasn't. Though he was another that attempted to feel my ass, but I'm guessing that was a sport last night. Anyway I hardly some him, or her for that matter. I was shaking my stuff on the dance floor. Anyway she was in a mood because I didn't stay downstairs, because I wanted to be upstairs, how anti-social of me huh! Lol, this really is turning into a rant. Sorry folks. It's just nice to get things off my chest. One more thing, then I promise I'm done.

My friends boyfriend, has this friend who always goes out with his gf, but is a terrible flirt. Now I think it's just just disrespectful to her, to be bumping and grinding with other girls right in front of her. I saw him last night, and he hugged me and said hello. Then he got my face in his hands and kissed me, I thought he was going for a hello peck, he then tried to stick his tongue down my throat. He's lucky I didn't have a knee jerk reaction. Instead I just pushed him away. Am I over-reacting. In my whingey state am I just seeing this as another way to have a go at the male species? I don't know. A male friend of mine really upset me the other day, he did something mean, and he did it intentionally, and it really hurt my feelings. I know he didn't really want to hurt me, that he meant what he did in good humour, but it did upset me, maybe this is what it's all about. Though I still think they should keep their hands off my ass!

I'm done now, thanks for listening! Hope you all had a wicked weekend. I'm off to prepare for the football. Bye bye folks xxxx

Comments

web_poet

on Aug 15, 2004

Well, I feel sorry for you, Sally. If you dont mind, may I say: either you have a very 'alluring' ass or you are in bad circles. Anyway, most men are like that-they are promiscuous. Its in the biology. Keep blogging anyway, SJ!

SSG Geezer

on Aug 15, 2004

He was definitely out of line Sally,
A knee jerk reaction might have been just the thing for him.

M-Post

on Aug 15, 2004

Hmmm.. interesting... I went to a club last night myself.... but only one girl grabbed me bum

Though to me just up and grabbing someone's bum is damn rude, and deserving of a slap or two to keep em in check. No true gent would do such a thing unless you just shove it in their face the whole night

Though I'm not suggesting you were doing that hehe

Can't much blame you for the "wanted knee jerk" part either. As cruel as it makes me feel, I think ya should have done so. Kissing a friend on the cheek is acceptable, even a quick kiss on the lips is ok.. but with tongue... just a bit too far.

I can understand the male bashing hun, and have your fun time at it

There are a lot of times we all really deserve it!

AndyBaker

on Aug 15, 2004

I wish more girls would feel my ass in a club. I can only assume there's a difference in biology between girls and blokes, as web poet said. (Just being honest!)

chiprj

on Aug 15, 2004

I wish more girls would feel my ass in a club.

A few years back I went to a korean night club that was run by a touristy type hotel. I'd been to many clubs in Korea before, but they were usually populated by a younger crowd. This one, however, was mostly an older crowd (late 30's-early 40's range - I was only 26 at the time). It was a lot of fun untilI got 'package' checked (5 times)!!! Once, by a guy! My friends thought it was very funny. The rest of that trip, I wouldn't go back to that particular club.

An odd side note - that club had pictures of naked women from a playboy type magazine lining the bathroom walls, much like many stateside restaurants/clubs do with the sports/business pages in men's rooms.

AndyBaker

on Aug 15, 2004

I wish more girls would feel my ass in a club

Chipri, that comment is open to interpretation. The spirit in which it was meant could either express perversion or flirtatiousness. You might be glad to hear that it’s the latter, in this case.

Getting one's bum felt 5 times by shady Koreans doesn’t sound like good fun to me. Balance and a good spirit is the key.

chiprj

on Aug 15, 2004

The spirit in which it was meant could either express perversion or flirtatiousness. You might be glad to hear that it’s the latter, in this case.

Getting one's bum felt 5 times by shady Koreans doesn’t sound like good fun to me

I figured it was the flirtatious interpretation. But when I said 'package', I didn't mean the behind...

AndyBaker

on Aug 15, 2004

when I said 'package', I didn't mean the behind...

ooh dear! Over the line. No wonder you didn't go back to the club.

Regarding bum pinching, even when its done with a good spirit and a balance (i.e. not in a shady way and not too much), it appears that women find it offensive, whilst most men welcome it. Why is that the case? (Or maybe it's not, and I'm just mistaken).

Sally jacobs

on Aug 15, 2004

either you have a very 'alluring' ass or you are in bad circles.

We'll go with the alluring ass

He was definitely out of line Sally,A knee jerk reaction might have been just the thing for him.

Yeah I think you may be right, hopefully he'll get what's coming to him, naughty sausage!

No true gent would do such a thing unless you just shove it in their face the whole night

They weren't true gents then! I should be able to do what I like with my ass, and not worry about some guy grabbing hold of it!

I went to a club last night myself.... but only one girl grabbed me bum

But how many lesbians did you pick up

I wish more girls would feel my ass in a club.

Just shake it a bit more, they won't be able to resist!

It was a lot of fun untilI got 'package' checked (5 times)!!! Once, by a guy!

That's just wrong! Someone would get a kick in the teeth if they tried that with me!

Regarding bum pinching, even when its done with a good spirit and a balance (i.e. not in a shady way and not too much), it appears that women find it offensive, whilst most men welcome it. Why is that the case? (Or maybe it's not, and I'm just mistaken).

I can't actually answer that, but I do agree with it. Maybe it's because women feel more vulnerable when placed in that position. We are made much more aware of things like that than men are, and have to deal with it alot more. Maybe it's more of a novelty for men, where as for us ladies it becomes tedious.

Thanks for all the comments xxx

Mandy

on Aug 16, 2004

lol great article! and hey sally i'm out of state for the time being, so thats why i havent been able to talk to u.

lol...and i like it when guys stare....well CUTE guys at least, they can stare at me all they want......IF only they could handle it! lol

yea ur behind is totally kick ass! lol...hot stuff...so it's all good

and with ur firends bf....i would have been like, "OH u didn't girlfriend! back it up!" lol jk

Sally jacobs

on Aug 16, 2004

hey sally i'm out of state for the time being, so thats why i havent been able to talk to u.

...ok I'll let you off I guess, hehe!

i like it when guys stare....well CUTE guys at least, they can stare at me all they want......IF only they could handle it!

Thats the problem, them boys can't handle it! So they shouldn't be looking in the first place!

and with ur firends bf....i would have been like, "OH u didn't girlfriend! back it up!

Hehe! I should of just kicked him!

Thanks for the comment honey!

thomas anonomous

on Aug 29, 2004

Sally, I am male but I agree with you on this one. If you see an adorable female bottom, be gentle and do not touch it!

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