Kermit's goin away on holiday for two weeks. He's only just got back and he's off again. Grrr.....I'm not looking forward to this two weeks. I have a bad feeling, ever since my nightmares about it. Bad feelings. LOL, over reacting, nahhh not me! I guess I'm just being selfish, in fact I know I am. I should be pleased he is going away for sun, sea and erm....sand! I'm just going to miss him. I need a slap I think, really I do. I'm whinging about two weeks. Could this girl get anymore clingy? Grrr....and that makes me mad to. Why should I have to worry about coming across as clingy. If I'm going to miss him, why can't I just say it. Because the GAME doesn't allow us to be that open and honest? Men and women have stereotypes that they think they have to live up to. Appear to be independent ladies. You can't have a man thinking you actually care about him. Tut tut. Life is not that simple. You have to play hard to get. Show him you like him, but don't ever let him know that you need him. Don't phone him after a date, let him phone you! If he doesn't then you did something wrong, it isn't simply that he's playing by the same rules! All these games, grrr!
The other thing that gets me is, what is it with women and men that treat them badly? Please explain it to me. I'm gulity of it myself but it winds me up. These guys that treat you badly, keep you waiting, use you, never tell you how do the majority of women react to this behaviour, they want more! I have friends complain to me about these kind of guys. That they are convinced they are the woman to change their wicked ways. This is what guys play off, a womans self worth. We think we're the special one to calm this bloke down. I mean why would he want anything else when he has us? After all the heartache, he does start to change. We break him down, and then what happens? We lose interest, and move on to the next challenge! It's popular belief that the nice guys are boring. NO! Nice guys are nice. They care about us, tell us how they feel, make us laugh, and would do just about anything for us. But we leave them for the men that confuse us. Could it be women actually enjoy the turmoil. The rollercoaser of emotions. We need to decide what we want and go for it. I'm sure deep down women want the nice guy. Not all women are the same, this is just a general thing, but at the moment ladies men are getting the last laugh, it's not a game! Stop them laughing!
The best thing about Kermit, and believe me there's alot of good things, hehe, is the honesty policy we have. I've been thinking about this quite a bit. We have put a great emphasis on being honest with each other. About everything. Our feelings, what we think, what we do, what we've done. Just complete, blind honesty. Even if we know the other won't like what we have to say, we still tell them out of respect for each other. How the other person deals with it is up to them. I like this. That honesty is the most important thing. It makes me feel secure. I know i can tell him anything. I can tell him I'm going to miss him like crazy when he goes away, and he'll take it for what it is. Honesty is the best policy and I truely believe that.
No games, though I'm sure at one point or another we have both been guilty of playing them. The whole honesty thing is just so much more important. I consider myself to be an honest person anyway. But we are all tempted, especially when it comes to feelings, to shy away from the truth, but I'm glad I don't have to do that. I'll always appreciate your honesty Kermit and respect you enough to be honest back. You're a bad boy sweety, but you'll always be my nice guy, hehe!