I have come to a conclusion about myself. It's about me and men. I think I like the kind of bloke that's going to hit me over the head, throw me over his shoulder and take me back to his cave. Where he will then grunt at me, while I look after him, and take care of his every need. Grrr! The thing is, I don't like pretty boys. You know the kind of bloke I'm talking about. The one that spends longer in the bathroom than you do. The kind that dresses better than you do. The type that has to be pulled away from the mirror because he just can't stop looking at how gorgeous he is. The kind that knows he is hot, and uses it to his full advantage. The kind that expects every woman he comes in contact with to fall at his feet, and fall madly in love, even if he does act like a self absorbed jerk. Some chicks just dig that. A dude that looks good. I can see where they are coming from, but it's just not for me!
Confidence is an extremely attractive quality. However, I have found that people who are confident, especially men, generally walk an extremely fine line between confidence and arrogance. Even though I find confidence attractive, arrogance is a huge turn off, and something I really can't stand. I am happy for someone to be confident in how the look, how they are, how they appear. That's great. It's when someone goes around thinking they are better than other people, and just because of the way they look, grrr! These pretty boys need to realise that there is much more to a person that what products they use, and what brand of clothes they wear. People need to have something going on upstairs, inbetween their ears!
Where I live, there is a couple of Universities, which means there are alot of students about the place. The majority of male students are these pretty boys. Now obviously to go to University you need to have at least a bit of something going on (not a great deal!), and I'm not saying all pretty boys are stupid, I'm saying it's what they put importance on! You can spot these pretty boys a mile off. As eye candy goes, I'm not complaining, it's alright to look after all, but they really just don't do it for me. With their spikey hair, that has so much product on you could probably snap pieces off. With the air of arrogance about them, that they know people are looking at them, and they could pretty much pick up any girl they turned their smile on. I don't think so matey! I especially like it when they try and chat you up, and they look at you like you've just come from another planet when you turn them down. Like it's never happened to them before, and there obviously must be something wrong with ME for doing it to them.
I like men who are a bit rough and ready. I think it's great if a man looks after himself, and cares about they way he looks. I think all men should spend a bit of time doing that. I just think there is a line. It's a womans job to prance in front of the mirror for an hour wondering what to wear, and usually deciding on the first one she tried on. It's our job to spend two hours in the bathroom doing our make-up and hair! Not the mans! They should be waiting for us, not fighting for a look in the mirror! Haha...well that's just what I like at least. Pretty boys can stay away from me thanks!