"Conversation should be pleasant without scurrility, witty without affectation, free without indecency, learned without conceitedness, novel without falsehood."
Published on June 3, 2006 By Sally jacobs In Misc
I'm not a girly girl. I'm not to fussed if more than one hair is out of place. I don't burst into flames if someone sees me without make-up on. My world doesn' come crumbling to a horrible end if my outfit doesn't exactly match. All these things just don't bother me. I like to look nice, and I like to feel good, I just don't put a great importance on these things. I have friends who spend hours in the mirror making themselves look good by caking make-up on, and doing their hair. To be honest, there isn't a huge difference to when they started. That isn't the point though, because it makes them feel confident, and that's what's important. It's just not for me though.

I do have one weakness though. Something that everyone who knows me is aware of, something I just can't hide. It's my kryptonite. I just can't pass up a cute pair of shoes. I love all kinds of shoes. Oh, how I love them! Walking past a shoe shop for me is almost physically impossible, I feel like I will be missing out on the most wonderful pair of shoes. I just have to go in and have a look, and then of course I usually end up buying something. Usually a ridiculous pair of shoes. The kind that look heavenly, and make you drool, but upon wearing them, after ten minutes it feels like you are walking through flames. They seem to be the kind of shoes I am most attracted to. It's like I have two parts of me. One telling me to be sensible, that I have enough shoes, and however ridiculously cute these shoes are, they are just that, ridiculous. Then I have my evil side pushing me on. Telling me one more pair won't hurt, that I will soon become used to them, and my Mums favourite words as we were growing up, "You have to suffer to be beautiful". That side wins more often than not.

I have it in my head that a nice pair of shoes can make or break an outfit. That you can look beautiful, hair done nicely, gorgeous outfit, but bad shoes, that's it game over! I seem to live in a world where everyone walks about looking at the floor, and checking out peoples feet. Well that is what I do! When I first meet anyone, the first thing I do is check out their shoes! I don't know why.....as it tells me absolutely nothing insightful about the person, but I just can't help it. I have days where I look like a complete horror. My hair is all over the place, I'm wearing the first things I could lay my hands on...you get the awful picture. I always have nice shoes on though! My toenails are always painted, and looking lovely, and my shoes look fab! At least I make an effort somewhere huh! Even if it is where not many people look!

Ever since I was a kid I have had this obsession with shoes. My Mum could take me shopping for anything, and still I would always find a pair of shoes that I wanted. A pair of shoes that once they were bought for me, were actually very difficult to get off me. Everytime I got a new pair of shoes, I used to go to bed in them on the first night......something I have grown out of now, I swear ( I just lay them next to me in the bed now, hehe)! I used to run about in my Mums and sisters shoes. Oh how I love shoes!

Maybe I have a foot fetish or something......

Comments
on Jun 03, 2006
My last girlfriend used to complain that I had more shoes than she did, so I guess it isn't always just a "girl thing".
on Jun 03, 2006
I am part of the shoe lover club too. I have some that are just adorable but they kill my foot. I don't care. They are cute and they get noticed. Not by men but by other woman. "Cute shoes!" they say "I know, don't you love them" that's me.
on Jun 03, 2006
YOu and Imelda Marcos and my wife!
on Jun 04, 2006
My last girlfriend used to complain that I had more shoes than she did, so I guess it isn't always just a "girl thing".


Haha! I've never met a man before that was into shoes....I'm impressed!

I have some that are just adorable but they kill my foot. I don't care. They are cute and they get noticed. Not by men but by other woman. "Cute shoes!" they say "I know, don't you love them" that's me.


Yer, they mean nothing to most men. It's just a pair of shoes, but us ladies notice these things!

YOu and Imelda Marcos and my wife!


Haha...what can I say, we have taste!
on Jun 04, 2006
I'm not a girly girl. I'm not to fussed if more than one hair is out of place. I don't burst into flames if someone sees me without make-up on.


The thing about women like you is that when you do go all out, you make a real, lasting impression on the guys.

Oh how I love shoes!


You and my wife both...
on Jun 04, 2006
I love boots...any kind of boots. I can relate.
on Jun 04, 2006
I can understand I once dated a girl who had like 20 pair of justin ropers, one in every color made at the time. My current girl is more conservative she normally wears her the same pair of boots every day unless she has to dress up for a business meeting or something. My self I have 3 pair of boots, one black pair for dressing up, one black and browm for a step above casual and one brown pair for every day and one pair of running shoes.
on Jun 05, 2006
The thing about women like you is that when you do go all out, you make a real, lasting impression on the guys.


Aww Maso, I almost blushed then, hehe! I think I scrub up pretty well, haha!

I love boots...any kind of boots. I can relate.


Lol, before today I've seen a woman in a nice pair of boots and had to ask her where she got them from. I think people think I'm a little strange!

My current girl is more conservative she normally wears her the same pair of boots every day unless she has to dress up for a business meeting or something.


I can't wear the same pair of shoes two days in a row....I think I may have an illness......

My self I have 3 pair of boots, one black pair for dressing up, one black and browm for a step above casual and one brown pair for every day and one pair of running shoes.


I think you follow a similar philosophy as most men. To be fair though, you can buy a pair of shoes, and they will pretty much go with every piece of clothing you own. Lucky men!
on Jun 05, 2006
Aww Maso, I almost blushed then, hehe! I think I scrub up pretty well, haha!


Almost... I must be slipping. And I'm sure you scrub up better than you think you do... (did that make you blush, huh?)
on Jun 06, 2006
Almost... I must be slipping. And I'm sure you scrub up better than you think you do... (did that make you blush, huh?)


Hehe...ok I blushed....you've still got the magic touch